“I could not perform “Everybody Hurts” for the last time in London with 30,000 people in the room or 80,000 people on the field knowing full well it was the last time we were going to do it. I just couldn’t. I would collapse. It would be impossible – I wouldn’t be able to hit the notes.” {From: Michael Stipe: Why R.E.M. called it a day – Interviews – Salon.com}
As much as I would have liked for R.E.M. to have done a farewell tour, I can understand their reasons for not doing one. As I have said many times before, I kind of need definite endings.
R.E.M was a big part of my life when I was growing up; they occupied a large amount of my mental real estate. Even though I had lost touch with the band and pretty much rejected their last few releases, I paid close attention to their trajectory. I didn’t ignore the albums, but was forced to actively refuse to purchase them, because when R.E.M. says something, still, to this day, I cannot stop myself from paying attention.
I’ll never be done with them–I’ll keep my R.E.M. CDs ’til I’m dead–but now that they have officially quit, I am free of the nagging voice in my head that wondered, upon each new album, whether or not they have produced something even half as arresting as their previous work. Or whether or not they’re still capable of reaching that standard, or if they are irredeemable dinosaurs.
I don’t have to worry about it any more. Thanks to the definitive end.